I don’t know why people still call Republicans the GOP. There is nothing grand about them. Both parties put their own spin on the issues, as do media sources. I’m not interested in spin. Corporate interests need to be removed from politics. Money corrupts. Washington needs to change.

Republicans don’t bother to hide the fact that, they do not care for regular people. They roll out the clichés, and expect the public are just plain stupid. I listen daily to the need to protect the job creators. The Rich in this country have never been richer, so by that equation there should be more jobs in the USA, than ever before. There is not. Companies ship their staff base overseas because it is cheaper to do so. You cannot legislate to stop them. It is their choice. We have a free society. Company profits rise, and as a result we have less jobs at home.

Small business wants to hire, but if no one’s buying why would they be hiring? Some need cash flow to expand, but getting credit is near impossible. Most are struggling to keep their heads above water, and feed their families.

There are many complex factors that contributed to the mess the economy’s in.

How about housing? The loosely regulated financial market created the crisis, yet the GOP blame it on “dead beat homeowners” who lied on mortgage applications. So the answer to this enormous problem is less regulation of the banks, and smaller government. Their argument is that unregulated markets create jobs. Historically, unregulated markets create inequitable practice, with few benefits for the masses.

I still don’t understand why none of the bankers are in jail. They wreaked more havoc and destroyed more lives than Bernie Madoff, who is serving life for his crimes.

The GOP’s answer to everything seems to be tax cuts for the wealthy. This is not going to solve the nations problems. If you are willing to accept a society where only the privileged few succeed, then this will work for you.

Newt Gringrich’s answer seems to be: put 13 year old kids from poor neighborhood’s to work as janitors. This will cut down welfare payments, and help small business access cheap labor. Doesn’t Newt realize that replacing mom and pop with junior, will add to the unemployment figures, and impede an already struggling class. It seems the GOP will not be satisfied until we are living in Dickensian times again.

Their strategy is to distract and divide, and in bad economies its easier to divide and conquer.

Dear Mr Gingrich, and the rest of the GOP – we know that your constant use of the phrase entitlement program is code for: those lazy blacks are getting our hard earned tax dollars for free. Us hardworking, respectable white folk need to do something.

Despite the bad economy, the super wealthy are doing OK. Yet if you listen to House Republicans, you might well believe times are tough for them too. I was startled to read last week, that 6 members of the Wal-Mart family have more money ($93 billion) than the combined wealth of 30% of Americans (90 million people) I don’t think they’re in dire need of a tax break.

What makes this country great, is that you don’t need to be super rich to have a good life. Corporate and political greed however, is eroding the structure we once enjoyed. We are heading towards a very divided society of the “have’s” and the struggling classes.

I can barely stand to watch the disingenuous John Boehner, Eric Cantor and Co. wax lyrical about taxes. They know, like I know they’re talking **#@$***

 I’ve almost stopped watching regular TV. It seems the commercials have gotten longer, and I feel like I’m being fed hallucinatory drugs every 10 minutes….. buy my thing….buy my thing… it’s all too much.

I try to catch the news, but by the time it gets to 6 O’clock, I generally have more information than Brian Williams. God bless the internet.

I’m a news and information junkie, so PBS is just the best for us serious types.

CNN has so deterioated that I watch it only when I’m traveling, and if there are no other english language channels available.

I wish there were some happy news programs as well.

TV news is mostly bad news. There are so many good things happening but alas, bad news sells.

For feel good TV we need to look elsewhere. Drama , comedy and reality TV.

I love all the Law & Order franchises, and anything on HGTV. HBO and Showtime have a slew of well written drama’s, but I don’t have much time to watch them all. CBS Sunday Morning & 60 Minutes are a must on weekends.

I have to confess, I was glued to the Housewives of Beverly Hills last year. Camille’s all round bitchiness  kept me interested, together with the high school behavior of the other women. Was the pettiness of these ladies really real? I was fascinated. Luckily I weaned myself of it by season 2.

It struck me that I was using my life to watch someone else’s life when I could be doing something more interesting with my own.

Reality TV makes you feel good, because we know we’re not as awful as the characters on screen. Has anyone watched Jersey Shore? Need I say more?

I recently read a post on WordPress titled 15 things white girls love to do do on Facebook. I’m not a white girl, I’m a mature woman, but I was curious, so I read the piece. I laughed out loud at the joviality, but was left wondering why the young author had chosen separation. Why had the title not been; 15 things girls love to do on Facebook? Why white girls? In my experience young girls in America have a lot in common, whatever “group” you put them in.

We love to create groups. We love to belong to groups that are clearly defined. Is the world too scary for us to say “this is me” I don’t need a group for definition.

Groups generally say we are different. We are separate. And whether consciously or subconsciously groups say; We are better.

I am guilty too. Breaking out of the group is hard.   

I am always amazed by folk who go off to find themselves. Where do you start looking? Are you in the bathroom? Do you discover yourself on a remote hilltop in India? or maybe you just realize who you are on a sunny morning in July.

I do know one thing that is always absolutely true. Wherever you go…there you are. Always.

You cannot escape from yourself. Taking off to a far-flung land is not going to make you a better iteration of yourself. The experiences you may have however, can change your mind forever.

 

Groups come in many guises. Some self elected groups label and define other groups. Blacks, Whites, Hispanics… Hindu’s, Christians, Buddhist’s, Muslims. Grouping is not always a positive way to start a sentence, and is sometimes suffixed with a subtle dig or complaint or other. Individuals are way more complicated than the group, yet we continue to allow the group to dominate us.

Humans are conscious beings, able to think freely and make choices, yet we make decisions based on what other members of our group think. We like to pat ourselves on the back for being a forward thinking progressive society, yet it is only the free thinkers amongst us who deserve praise. They do not participate in the pack, and are often ostracized for it.

"God has no religion" Gandhi

Some groups want many things that do not progress mankind, and generally only progress the leaders in the group. They object to freedom of choice, and freedom of speech (but pretend to embrace it)

Since the beginning of time man has operated in groups out of protection and fear, but In 2011 we have no real predators. We are now groups operating more out of fear than protection.

Fear is a trap. It creeps up on you, It keeps you in the job you hate for 25 years. It keeps you in the town you grew up in. It keeps you in an abusive relationship, It keeps you in the group.

When faced with tough decisions, I try to ask myself; what would I do if I wasn’t afraid? I try to take fear out of the equation, but I’m not always successful. It’s the hardest way to go, yet when I’m brave enough, it turns out to be the most satisfying choice. Life is lighter without the fear monster on our backs, yet most of our decisions are made because we are scared.

Group think is fear by definition, and it’s dangerous. It pits one group against the other. It starts wars. It preaches exclusion, not inclusion. Anytime people stop thinking as individuals society suffers.

Free thinkers have always dominated our world both past and present from Pythagoras to Freud to Gandhi. Original thoughts are why we are here, yet few exercise this inherent process. Our minds can rise above this collective thinking.

If you can, tear down just one pre programmed group thought today, and explore just one new idea. You’ll literally be making the world a better place.  

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